I took care of dad since 07 (passed last july)about 3yrs now caring for mom w/dementia. They have paid me w/o reporting and Neither did I. I did txes 20112 the 1st time in sev yrs because of a Ins. payout. Sev. folks told me i must start or go back and pay taxes. I am fearful of IRS and want to do the right thing, however im afraid how much id owe. Mom never wanted(it was dad really) to figure taxes out and she says she would have to pay too Dad thought tis under the table was best (for him?)I realize my loss with the SS situation too.With her dementia, this would be a mess. I dont want to get into trouble later however i dont want to owe something far above what i have saved.now. Dont expect w/her long term policies money will be issue for her. Any advise that would save me anxiety & money too Her accountant is$$$$$. I am afraid i wont get an inheritance because of this, sure irs will take my trust portion! HELP very worried
Carol