Hey folks, welcome to the new whine/general topic thread. Feel free to use this thread to discuss anything that is on your mind. Caregiving- related stuff, life after a loved one's death, your own emotional wellbeing. Whatever..........anything on your mind.
Even funnier (to me at least) is that I only now realized my nephew #2 and I have mirror birthday dates!
We have no designated holiday spending, and no longer send gifts for many years now. Counselors have mentioned that after rent, utilities, and groceries for the disabled income, there is very little left over. Yet, he doesn't get it, acts entitled.
But I have a lock on the accounts, and will beef up security.
If he continues to act like the enemy, he will be treated like the enemy.
I pray for my enemies, so he should look out.
Can the two of you talk sensibly about holiday spending?
Apparently, Rep-Payee only covers Social Security Income.
Spouse feels all the rest is HIS to splurge, and kept a secret from me.
This is not acceptable, at least to me. He has crossed a fine line of entitlement and betrayal. However, he does this once a year in November and December.
If the contempt continues, this will be the deal breaker.
I do think there are times where "yours, mine and ours" works best, but that is not always the case.
Sympathies, send. That's difficult.
The term "mutiny" in this context likely refers to a partner taking control of the finances, which can be a form of financial abuse regardless of the reason. While a husband with autism might take over money due to communication differences, a lack of understanding of shared finances, or other factors, this behavior can still be harmful and requires addressing the situation with clear communication and professional support.
I’ve often thought if I was bedridden , or had dementia I would be frightened .
I think they should find out from the patient or the family if their LO did not like ( large ) or any dogs in general .
My parents did not like when the dogs came in. My mother liked the cats that used to come though .
It’s always been in the common living room or dining room area and the residents selected to participate were those that would not be upset by the activity .
I imagine some residents might get confused and stressed out.
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“Don’t feel sad over someone who gave up on you. Feel sorry for them because they gave up on someone who would have never given up on them.”
i wish you to find love.
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Oh, good. This bout is over. Know we know you, we remember you, you're a member in good standing, and we are always here to listen. And otherwise it is just to wish you best of luck. Keep on keeping on.
Ah, I see. It was in the local news.
It could have been an AB car that hit the cyclist, but most black cars don't have grey side mirrors.
I had to chuckle at the question "do you know why I pulled you over" because that's a standard one, it's as if they're hoping you'll say "why yes officer, I was doing xxx" (lol)
I can really recommend to everyone, no matter how old you are, take a holiday! It has done wonders for me but I do wish I didn't have to deal with insurance nd car repairs now. There has been only cooperation from them so it should go smoothly. The car is a 2014 but with very low mileage and was in good shape so I would like to get it repaired rather than replaced.