I'm tired of cooking/preparing 3 meals a day. It's just the two of us but boy oh boy can that woman eat!! She stays slimish, I get fattish. It's bad enough I do everything here much less start making her one thing and me the other. At times I feel guilty when I buy her fast food cuz of the nutritional value....not to mention I eat it too.
You've been having such a rough time lately. Hang in there!
Hoping all goes well for your husband and that both of you are able to relax soon.
I waited around for your update and will sign out until tomorrow. Know you will be in my heart.
Infection markers are trending in the tight direction. Waiting to talk to the surgical team. He has had 3 units of blood and is on 2 antibiotics.
Me too!
Oh dementia dirty . I’d bet money on it .
Her mom has been driving her crazy. Something has to change. I have a feeling that she’s going to be researching facilities soon.
Her mom used to be very clean and dressed nice. Now, she’s fighting my friend on bathing and washing her hair. Something is off with her mom.
Stubborn woman with cognitive decline ?
Or bored and manipulative and wants daughter to beg her to leave . Or both ?
Like Burnt says, complaining can be a sport for some .
Her mom has been living in her home since her stepdad died. She said that they needed to evacuate the house until the gas leak was fixed. Her mother tells her, “I am not going anywhere. I intend to sleep in my own bed.”
My friend told her mom, “Well, unless you want to die, you are going to check into the hotel with us.”
My friend says that her mom is extremely stubborn. She is stubborn but I told her that she should speak to her mother’s doctor about cognitive decline.
It’s crazy that her mom wouldn’t want to evacuate a home that has a gas leak.
I felt sad for my friend having to fight with her mom in order to keep her safe. I am hoping that she will think about placing her mom in an assisted living facility.
So sorry he had to go to the ER but hopefully he (and you) will emerge victorious from all complications and that the universe will choose today please.
OK. So sorry.
Watching for updates from you.
Thoughts with you and you ex. Will look for your updates. So sorry for these complications, but this is the right place to be.
Oh no! So sorry. Sending hugs to you. Please keep us posted.
Hope your DH gets comfortable and not wobbly .
Hoping for a better day tomorrow for your husband and rest for you!
Hugs!
I am in the thick of caregiving my DH; his surgery, in which they robotically removed a stricture from his ureter and reattached it to his bladder was successful, but he is in loads of pain, and more worrisome, his blood pressure dropped very low tonight, leaving him clammy, faint feeling and wobbly.
I suspect it's the anti-spasmodic they are giving him to keep his bladder calm while it heals. Oh, and the catheters...
A better day tomorrow, please!