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If you can not get her to fly.. OK but why buy a car to move her? Rent a van if you need to, it will be cheaper! But get yourself (and her) back to your family before you no longer have one. Then you will have some help.
Caregiving for my husband has given me nothing more then a steady dose of worry, panic attaks, anger, and sleepless night from decisions about constent reprioritizing. It never changes. Everyday nothing gets done. Calls never get made. Laundry and dishes pile up higher. Theres never a moment of peace n disconnect for me. I dont remember what life was like before this fire i walk through everyday. I'd never change my decision to care for my best friend. But jeez louise why does it have to hurt so much?
Oh, Hmmmm, Well she won't Move.I finally got her to tell me why. She doesn't want to fly back to Ohio in a casket in the bottom of a plane. My Cousin Barbara said, Wel-l-l, does she think she'll be uncomfortable.
Suegirl, good heavens back in July your plans were to move your Mother to your home in California... is there any way you could get her there? The reason I asked is because California has good programs to help with the elderly such as paying you for you doing her care.
I noticed in past postings that your mother has memory issues and those won't get better, but will get worse. Are you ready to care for your mother 168 hours a week? No one can do that. I would suggest sell the house [if all the hoarding material has been moved out] and start fresh in California where you have your hubby, grown children, and grandchildren.
My Mother and I need help from our family and friends that can help us. I've been here caring for her since Jan.20. Only been out 3 times to get groceries. I am so stressed I cried harder yesterday than when our Daughter died.
My Mother has taken in all her family, to help them. She's cared for little ones, the sick, the lonely. She's been a Christian Mother. (A Christian Daughter, Wife, Mother, Sister, Aunt Friend,) all her life, Despite her on problems. And yet I spent Sunday yelling at her. At My Mother. She's not herself at 91. We need help. Please. My Husband, Home, and Children, and Grandchildren are in Calif. I'm looking for a car with my Brothers help. My Mother has 5 Grandchildren, 6 GreatGrand children. And not a one has called her, for her 90 Birthday or recent stay in hospital. Not a card.
REALLY! Is this ok. God forgive me for I said, in stress,tired,and total frustration, and what I'm thinking this morning. Please pray for us. That Mom isn't so resistant. And I need Prayer for everything but patience. Gods teaching me that.lol
Pastor Jack Graham Sermon on tv Sunday was onTimothy 1:2-8.
1 Timothy Advice About Widows,Elders and Slaves 1 Do not rebuke an older man harshly, but exhort him as if he were your father. Treat younger men as brothers, 2 older women as mothers, and younger women as sisters, with absolute purity. 3 Give proper recognition to those widows who are really in need. 4 But if a widow has children or grandchildren, these should learn first of all to put their religion into practice by caring for their own family and so repaying their parents and grandparents, for this is pleasing to God. 5 The widow who is really in need and left all alone puts her hope in God and continues night and day to pray and to ask God for help. 6 But the widow who lives for pleasure is dead even while she lives. 7 Give the people these instructions, too, so that no one may be open to blame. 8 If anyone does not provide for his relatives, and especially for his immediate family, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever. 9 No widow may be put on the list of widows unless she is over sixty, has been faithful to her husband, 10 and is well known for her good deeds, such as bringing up children, showing hospitality.
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
VI. No Waiver of Your Rights.
APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
I agree that:
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I authorize A Place For Mom ("APFM") to collect certain personal and contact detail information, as well as relevant health care information about me or from me about the senior family member or relative I am assisting ("Senior Living Care Information").
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APFM may provide information to me electronically. My electronic signature on agreements and documents has the same effect as if I signed them in ink.
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APFM may send all communications to me electronically via e-mail or by access to an APFM web site.
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I noticed in past postings that your mother has memory issues and those won't get better, but will get worse. Are you ready to care for your mother 168 hours a week? No one can do that. I would suggest sell the house [if all the hoarding material has been moved out] and start fresh in California where you have your hubby, grown children, and grandchildren.
My Mother has taken in all her family, to help them. She's cared for little ones, the sick, the lonely. She's been a Christian Mother. (A Christian Daughter, Wife, Mother, Sister, Aunt Friend,) all her life, Despite her on problems.
And yet I spent Sunday yelling at her.
At My Mother. She's not herself at 91. We need help. Please.
My Husband, Home, and Children, and Grandchildren are in Calif. I'm looking for a car with my Brothers help. My Mother has 5 Grandchildren,
6 GreatGrand children.
And not a one has called her, for her 90 Birthday or recent stay in hospital.
Not a card.
REALLY! Is this ok. God forgive me for I said, in stress,tired,and total frustration,
and what I'm thinking this morning.
Please pray for us. That Mom isn't so resistant. And I need Prayer for everything but patience. Gods teaching me that.lol
Pastor Jack Graham Sermon on tv Sunday was onTimothy 1:2-8.
1 Timothy
Advice About Widows,Elders and Slaves
1 Do not rebuke an older man harshly, but exhort him as if he were your father. Treat younger men as brothers, 2 older women as mothers, and younger women as sisters, with absolute purity. 3 Give proper recognition to those widows who are really in need. 4 But if a widow has children or grandchildren, these should learn first of all to put their religion into practice by caring for their own family and so repaying their parents and grandparents, for this is pleasing to God. 5 The widow who is really in need and left all alone puts her hope in God and continues night and day to pray and to ask God for help. 6 But the widow who lives for pleasure is dead even while she lives. 7 Give the people these instructions, too, so that no one may be open to blame. 8 If anyone does not provide for his relatives, and especially for his immediate family, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever. 9 No widow may be put on the list of widows unless she is over sixty, has been faithful to her husband, 10 and is well known for her good deeds, such as bringing up children, showing hospitality.