He has had a wound in his leg and it's swollen
I haven't been to see him since he got out of the hospital about 7 months ago I said I will not set foot in that disgusting house
He was ok with that for about 6 months and never contacted me(what a surprise not)
and then a few weeks later an urgent care person said he needs to go to the hospital because he needs more care for his leg
anyway I have only seen him once we have a meeting tomorrow with some caseworkers or idk who
my sister is going to be on the call from wherever her lair is
none of these people give two craps about me I am going to because of pure curiosity but then again I shouldn't go
Medicare will no longer pay because it may have found he can't be helped. He is as far as the rehab can take him. They only treat for what he was in the hospital for, they don't treat for pre-existing problems. Best thing for him would be LTC. If they will take you saying "place him" then do it and again take what is available. Make sure they have Sis's phone# and ask that they lose yours. If Sis won't do her job, then the state needs to step in. Stand by your guns and say that you will not care for him and why.
Remember, Dad got himself into this mess. Not you or your sister, she maybe the smart one by staying away. Please allow the State to take over his care. Then you can completely step away.
My sister refuses to talk to me and she has me blocked I'll see what I can do.
He needs more rehab but Medicare cut him off
I was crying at the meeting and he didn't even care.
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The rehab place is recommending one facility but I am assuming they have an arrangement with them.
He'll probably need to be out by Wednesday or Thursday this is such a mess.
I was very low contact I guess I still could be but idk anymore
Neither one of us is POA and he doesn't want to deal with arranging that