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I know of another case like this. She’s an RN and he has many disabling health problems due to alcoholism and refusing treatment of his issues. She was his first wife. I couldn’t believe she fell for his charming ways again after all she went through during a divorce that he made nasty. So I guess using your gullible ex is a “thing.” It doesn’t bode well. He can barely walk and has dementia. Age 81. SMH! OP, don’t do this!
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um, abuse isn’t just physical. Going to private school.. what does that have to do with anything? People who are abused and neglected go to private school.

I side with your daughter. He is using you because you are the one person he was able to dig up.
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JoAnn29 Aug 14, 2024
I think what OP is saying is that because of his money she was able to go to private school and have the nicer things in life. I get where is not the daughters father.
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“….he is alone and in poor health.”

IMO a health crisis is not the time to decide whether to get back together or not with an ex .

He left one day and you had a messy divorce . Your daughter considered him abusive . Abuse isn’t just “ touching “.

He may be back in the picture now because he needs a caregiver . There are a lot of red flags here that you are not seeing .

Your daughter seems wiser than you about what kind of man your ex is .
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Southernwaver Aug 13, 2024
He is recycling her.
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