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I was the sole caregiver for my father. He passed last fall. I am now overwhelmed with handling the process of clearing out and selling his home that he had for over 55 years. Thank you,
I am in the process of doing this now for my mom who is 94, and lives with me and finally gave the go-ahead with selling her home 2-3 hrs away. I set up packers, movers that would have come next week but almost fainted when they told me the price, approx 5k !! I said yes at the time, having already set up a local storage place to bring it and then we go through things a little at a time.
I had gone over for a long weekend to get it done and moved, but delayed it after realizing how much stuff to pack and then move. Later that day and the next day after sticker shock of moves these days, I started going through things myself and brought a huge load back this weekend and will go next weekend for 4-5 days to finish up boxing up what I'll bring ... less than I planned because Mom did not remember a bunch of things this trip :) and arrange for loading help on a truck rental for the few pieces of big furniture items that we will incorporate into my house (while she is living).
Luckily a realtor friend of the family who we will list it with will meet with people to spruce it up a little to sell it (fixing a door, interior painting, and whatever decision is made on floors.... of course mom does not remember any carpet smell from past dogs :( , realtor says replace with inexpensive carpet, which I agree).
I have to say that it is ever so much better FOR ME to be able to do it while mom is still living..... so glad she has finally agreed after 2 years of it being vacant .... because if she had already passed, I am sure, I'd only take a few items and "estate sale" the rest of it.
Oh yeah, and all of this going on while my "tripod" dog (leg amputation almost 2 months ago) is not doing well.... her other back leg is hurt, so she can't stand at all and now for the last day and a half has not urinated..... if it was the other little dog we have, she'd go in the house in a minute, but this special sweet dog would NEVER go in the house, so back to the vet again tomorrow after going to the ER vet tonight. If they have to catheterize her, she will have to be sedated, and then there is still the problem of the hurt "good" back leg .... if it does not heal soon, I think her time will be sooner than later. She's not big but is heavy and my back hurts, and no one else available to take her outside and esp. because she won't go unless she can stand on her own. A sling/harness is not working for her with only her 2 front legs functioning (and problems with one of them in the past).
I wish you so much luck, fiorini, and check back in with all of us and let us know how it is going.
Whatever you do please take the time to go through drawers, pockets on clothing, old purses, etc. even the freezer before selling or donating them. Older folks tend to hide valuables and documents.
Look under furniture too, that's where I found the lockbox with the wills, deeds, etc. The mattress is a cliche place to hide stuff but don’t overlook that either!
We found over $300 in cash squirreled away at Mom's house, and a dozen unused gift cards. Go through letters, cards, and envelopes to check for money or checks. We found her checkbook wrapped in a shirt in the back of a drawer, and credit cards in various handbags. She even filled film canisters with quarters, I took about $150 in coins to the bank.
Make sure any documents that have personal information are removed or destroyed. Mom had canceled checks dating back to the 1950's. Remove old prescriptions, some CVS stores have bins where you can drop them for disposal.
After you have gone through everything yourself, look into estate liquidators for assistance. One that was recommended to me from someone else on this site is called “Everything But The House” (ebth.com) We will probably be using them, or one like them, soon. Mom will be 97 soon, and is in a memory care center.
Doing the same thing... had the estate person come over yesterday to view and explain how it works. It will be such a big help, but scheduling is filled till next month.
It costs money for help I am a cna for the last 10 years I am sole caregivier for my father yet hes in good shape, I have taken care, hired help to clean and sell or give away things it can be done its over whelming. it will cost a lot more to higher a estate person I have some advice glad to help
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
VI. No Waiver of Your Rights.
APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
I agree that:
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I authorize A Place For Mom ("APFM") to collect certain personal and contact detail information, as well as relevant health care information about me or from me about the senior family member or relative I am assisting ("Senior Living Care Information").
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APFM may provide information to me electronically. My electronic signature on agreements and documents has the same effect as if I signed them in ink.
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APFM may send all communications to me electronically via e-mail or by access to an APFM web site.
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If I want a paper copy, I can print a copy of the Disclosures or download the Disclosures for my records.
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This E-Sign Acknowledgement and Authorization applies to these Disclosures and all future Disclosures related to APFM's services, unless I revoke my authorization. You may revoke this authorization in writing at any time (except where we have already disclosed information before receiving your revocation.) This authorization will expire after one year.
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You consent to APFM's reaching out to you using a phone system than can auto-dial numbers (we miss rotary phones, too!), but this consent is not required to use our service.
I had gone over for a long weekend to get it done and moved, but delayed it after realizing how much stuff to pack and then move. Later that day and the next day after sticker shock of moves these days, I started going through things myself and brought a huge load back this weekend and will go next weekend for 4-5 days to finish up boxing up what I'll bring ... less than I planned because Mom did not remember a bunch of things this trip :) and arrange for loading help on a truck rental for the few pieces of big furniture items that we will incorporate into my house (while she is living).
Luckily a realtor friend of the family who we will list it with will meet with people to spruce it up a little to sell it (fixing a door, interior painting, and whatever decision is made on floors.... of course mom does not remember any carpet smell from past dogs :( , realtor says replace with inexpensive carpet, which I agree).
I have to say that it is ever so much better FOR ME to be able to do it while mom is still living..... so glad she has finally agreed after 2 years of it being vacant .... because if she had already passed, I am sure, I'd only take a few items and "estate sale" the rest of it.
Oh yeah, and all of this going on while my "tripod" dog (leg amputation almost 2 months ago) is not doing well.... her other back leg is hurt, so she can't stand at all and now for the last day and a half has not urinated..... if it was the other little dog we have, she'd go in the house in a minute, but this special sweet dog would NEVER go in the house, so back to the vet again tomorrow after going to the ER vet tonight. If they have to catheterize her, she will have to be sedated, and then there is still the problem of the hurt "good" back leg .... if it does not heal soon, I think her time will be sooner than later. She's not big but is heavy and my back hurts, and no one else available to take her outside and esp. because she won't go unless she can stand on her own. A sling/harness is not working for her with only her 2 front legs functioning (and problems with one of them in the past).
I wish you so much luck, fiorini, and check back in with all of us and let us know how it is going.
Look under furniture too, that's where I found the lockbox with the wills, deeds, etc. The mattress is a cliche place to hide stuff but don’t overlook that either!
We found over $300 in cash squirreled away at Mom's house, and a dozen unused gift cards. Go through letters, cards, and envelopes to check for money or checks. We found her checkbook wrapped in a shirt in the back of a drawer, and credit cards in various handbags. She even filled film canisters with quarters, I took about $150 in coins to the bank.
Make sure any documents that have personal information are removed or destroyed. Mom had canceled checks dating back to the 1950's. Remove old prescriptions, some CVS stores have bins where you can drop them for disposal.
I promised my daughter this weekend (she was over to help) that I promise I will never ever do this to my children.