My mom has not been well and refused multiple treatment opportunities as well as constantly calls police etc. She suffers from schizophrenia and also has osteoarthritis in knees. Needs assistance for most ADLs etc. Last night she was taken as a 302 to crisis center. She is still there as they haven’t found a bed for her yet. I am looking for anyone who knows how this may play out? I am worried that they will discharge her early/before giving time for medication to really work and then what?
Has anyone had to do a 302 before? Did they come home right after or possibly transferred to an inpatient facility for a little longer? Did it actually help?
Not really sure where to post this question, sorry if it’s in the wrong spot.
Where would they release mom to?
If they think they are simply sending her back home, please bleat "unsafe discharge" as loud and as often as you can and ask for help getting her into a facility.
If they try to guilt you into taking her to YOUR home, state firmly that it's not possible as you need to work. Do not listen to their promises that they will secure you inhome care. They won't.
There will need to be a legal representative who can make decisions for your Mother while she is deemed unable to at this time. (Maybe you have POA already?) This may be very short in my experience.
If she is of an age to be admitted/funded into aged care (assisted probably) you may wish to push for this rather than return home? Does she live with you? Are you providing the daily ADL help? Now is the time to speak up if this is no longer working.
It may even be that this crises is the beginning & it takes a few admission-home-admission cycles to get on the path you need - the right meds, more in-home care or in a facility.
Be kind to yourself - always remember you didn't cause this condition & while meds can certainly help, it is lifelong. You can though be a great advocate to help find her the care she needs.
I am sorry you have to deal with this very hard situation.
On another note, I am also partially a caregiver for my autistic niece. She was recently 302‘d by the school due to aggressive violent outbursts, but they didn’t keep her due to no beds and she was pleasant enough during intake where they suggested she’d benefit with outpatient therapy. So depending on how sick your Mom is, I hope they’ll at least suggest hospitalization until a bed becomes available and a psychiatric doctor can help make that determination, especially if the condition is ruled life threatening. I believe during the holidays and winter the demands exceeds the availability, but hopefully, you can get her admitted to a hospital(or an extension of psychiatric facilities) or crisis center (which also has rooms) for immediate help. Feel free to ask any questions as I’ve been down this dark road a few times too many. Good luck and God Bless.
If she’s demanding release after a certain point and staff has not seen that she is a danger to herself and others (basically saying she’s going to commit suicide or harm someone) then they’ll release her. This is a tough situation as you need to start removing yourself for your sanity but also make sure she has care. I’d call Aging and Disability and see what options there are. If none, wait it’s out a few days and call for a wellness check and they’ll readmit her if needed.
If they’ve medicated her to the point that she’s not fighting the stay or is being cooperative, they’ll keep her until they deem her stable or until her insurance benefits run out (for us it’s the 3 week mark). At this point if she can’t make her own decisions you can deny discharge. We’ve had to do this many times until the proper care was given and my MIL was truly stable or moved to an appropriate facility to give her the right type of care. The hospital discharge unit will likely give you a hard time (get ready for guilt trips) but just keep saying she’s a safety risk, can’t manage her daily needs, could fall or start the house on fire....whatever you need to do to keep her there. If they absolutely demand she has to leave the facility try to get them to work with social services to find her an appropriate living situation (we were able to get my MIL into a nice small group home setting paid for mainly by Title 19 and she gets to keep 1/3rd of her SSDI check) or a crisis respite (they’ll keep her for a week near us). If she is not at her baseline and willing to be in a facility for some more time. You could also drive her around the block and readmit her to the hospital or a different one.
I have no idea what a 302 is. There are people who will know so stick around.
I’m so sorry that you are dealing with this situation.
Best wishes to you and your family.
again. She refuses her meds, says she's gonna kill herself etc... Throws things. Screams that the neighbors hear .He has papers drawn up for the attorney that he's her poa. But still will not commit her when they want to release her. They had a placement for her this last time but told them no he's gonna give her another chance. Meantime every episode she has is not good for my mother in law with dementia. My husband which is his older brother and i have tried to talk to him and tell him this kind of behavior is not good for mom or him seeing he is schizophrenic. But he's on meds and keep under controll . the whole. Situation is just crazy just loss on what can be done