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if you don't go and see her, and she passes then you will proberly regret that your husband was denied seeing her. and if you were in the same position,would you be happy knowing that your children considered money over family?you can always go on a vacation,but you can't never say that your sorry that you denied your husband the position of seeing his mother ,maybe for the last time. show the compassion for husband that he is entitled to.good luck on your choice.
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Tothill Mar 2019
Sonny, nowhere in the OP is there any mention of the wife denying her husband the opportunity to go see his dying mother. Indeed she states that she is encouraging him to do.

Separately she wonders about the vacation they have planned.

Two different issues.
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Faith, are you with your MIL and that's why we haven't heard from you.
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Faith343 Mar 2019
Hi,

Yes we are with them. It's been a long journey and not done yet. It's nice to be here and see them both.

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Hi Everyone,

Thank you all for your heartfelt responses. We made the trip and are with them now. Funny thing, MIL is doing a little better. A little fluid and antibiotics have plumped her up a little. She is being fed a little soft food like pudding. Hospice is still on board. They have been amazing!!! In the NH, we don't use Hospice as much because there is care and pain meds available, but they provide an awesome service that no one else provides. They helped my husband understand what he would not let me explain to him and have been a huge asset to my FIL. We postponed our trip. The condo owners were both so nice!! They refunded all of our money and wished us well. Now I am working on the airlines.
Thank you all again!!! You are all amazing people for helping out strangers in their time of need. I am going back and answering all of your posts individually.
Faith
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97yroldmom Mar 2019
That’s great Faith. So glad you made the trip.
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