I think I miss my mom and the way she used to be. She’s 71 and still extremely independent but signs of change due to age is here.
She’s extremely self-centered now. She inserts herself into every situation, makes everything about her, has to share her opinion even when not asked. Over reacts to EVERYTHING. No matter what it is, it’s a level 10 reaction if she’s annoyed or bothered by something. Loud, abrasive, no awareness that she’s crossing boundaries of people around her.
My mom used to be extremely supportive. Thoughtful. Aware. It’s painful to see our relationship weaken.
It's too costly to be abused. (especially since many caregivers are older in age themselves!).