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Hi Tutgrum21, can you please provide more info? Like, why are you staying with them...for medical reasons? How old are you and what are your abilities? Does your DIL work? If so, how much? Will the house be crowded with you there? Can you drive yourself? Etc. Thanks!
All problems resolved with honest communication re; schedules and private times, my room is lovely, private bath, I arrived very tired, Florida to N. C have all the down time I wish, so I am blessed and all worry was for naught. Thanks for all your kind responses
Are you able to take care of your own needs, like showering, changing, laundry, etc. ? IF not, I'd let her know what you need help with in advance. Also, I'f offer to bring some food or go to grocery for certain things. If you prefer to have eggs for breakfast, let her know or if just toast and coffee works for you. If you want to take her and your son out for dinner on weekend, I'd let her know, so she can arrange schedule and know how many nights she needs to prepare dinner with you in mind. When I'm house guest, I say, I'll do dinner on these nights by ordering take out for everyone, what kind of things do you like? That way she's not planning meals everyday. I'd also take a tablet or book to read so you can retire to your room some evenings and let her and their family unwind in the living room. It's a little tiring to have to entertain all day and night. Also, I always take a thoughtful gift that shows you are thinking of your host(es), like a nice plant, herbs, wine, etc.
All good answers. Bring a small thoughtful gift, Don't overstay your welcome in the moment. excuse yourself to give them privacy when the moment comes and find time to get to know her better
This weekend my son and his wife will be visiting and staying at my home for the first time as a married couple (they got married two months ago). I want to make sure that SHE is comfortable in MY home. I have been having fun redecorating my son’s old room with that in mind. I will return the visit a couple of weeks later. They have already set up and decorated a room they call the “Mom room”. I like the idea of bringing a hostess gift and taking them out to dinner one night.
Why is it "necessary" to be in her home for two weeks? Will you be recovering from surgery? Will she need to take care of you? The answers to this question could be all over the place depending on the circumstances of the visit.
Then I don't understand at all? Why would you not be comfortable? Why would SHE not be comfortable? I regularly visit family, often for a month at a time. Not to say it always goes PERFECTLY every single second, but it surely goes well enough to overall have a great time. So I am in the fog of why this question would even come up.
Iam staying for 2+weeks, the son and wife Imlivecwith are on a 2 week vacation, I am physically able to do all tasks involved in caring for myself, the meals are prepared by my daughter in- law, she is always kind and considerate, they have a well scheduled life, I just don’t want to invade their privacy, or space. Also do damage to any of things provided for me.
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
VI. No Waiver of Your Rights.
APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
I agree that:
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I authorize A Place For Mom ("APFM") to collect certain personal and contact detail information, as well as relevant health care information about me or from me about the senior family member or relative I am assisting ("Senior Living Care Information").
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APFM may provide information to me electronically. My electronic signature on agreements and documents has the same effect as if I signed them in ink.
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APFM may send all communications to me electronically via e-mail or by access to an APFM web site.
D.
If I want a paper copy, I can print a copy of the Disclosures or download the Disclosures for my records.
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This E-Sign Acknowledgement and Authorization applies to these Disclosures and all future Disclosures related to APFM's services, unless I revoke my authorization. You may revoke this authorization in writing at any time (except where we have already disclosed information before receiving your revocation.) This authorization will expire after one year.
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You consent to APFM's reaching out to you using a phone system than can auto-dial numbers (we miss rotary phones, too!), but this consent is not required to use our service.
I arrived very tired, Florida to N. C have all the down time I wish, so I am blessed and all worry was for naught.
Thanks for all your kind responses
This weekend my son and his wife will be visiting and staying at my home for the first time as a married couple (they got married two months ago). I want to make sure that SHE is comfortable in MY home. I have been having fun redecorating my son’s old room with that in mind. I will return the visit a couple of weeks later. They have already set up and decorated a room they call the “Mom room”. I like the idea of bringing a hostess gift and taking them out to dinner one night.
But, generally speaking, I guess try to be a good houseguest.
I hope you have a wonderful time with your son and daughter-in-law. I pray I am as considerate and gracious as you when I grow up!