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I would guess that the NH has some legal responsibilities to keep track of its residents. I doubt that a cab company does. If your mother said, "I'm through visiting my friend now and I'm ready to go home," how is a cab driver supposed to know any different?
But that is just a guess, and I'd be interested to hear more informed opinions.
Once my husband wanted to stay home from his Adult Day Program to watch a sporting event. No, he needed to go. Much to my surprise he showed up at home a couple hours early that day -- he simply called the transportation company and asked them to come take him home early. Well on that particular day, no harm done. I had already handled my scheduled errands, etc. and happened to be home, but it would not have been so good if he'd come home to an empty house, especially since he can't always remember how to get in on his own. I called the Day Program. They had not missed him yet, and the director about had apoplexy hearing that he was at home watching sports! How could he have just walked out without them knowing it?! They had staff meetings and tightened up some procedures, but I can see how it could happen. Participants do leave at various times, for dental appointments, etc. and the mere fact that someone was walking out the door and into approved transportation at an odd time would not necessarily draw attention.
In the wonderful book "Water for Elephants" the elderly gentleman who is the central character goes missing from his NH when the family member who was to visit him fails to show up on time. That was quite believable.
You need to be proactive on this with the NH. If you are MPOA, then you request in writing that she is not allowed to leave unless she is accompanied by you and whomever else is on a very short list that you provide.
If you think this is very likely to happen, then don't let her have any cash. The NH can easily do a resident trust fund so she has to go and sign off for any $ taken out so she can get $ to buy things like candy or magazines but getting funds could be the trigger that she is going for an "escape" and the staff will be on the lookout.
Also there is nothing like getting friendly with the front desk, they usually know everything and can easily keep an eye out for potential escape. There is a couple of fast food places close to my mom's NH and the front desk gals and the nursing staff for her wing each get a small gift card from Wendy's or Taco Cabana on the odd occasion. Works wonders for helpfulness.
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
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APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
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You consent to APFM's reaching out to you using a phone system than can auto-dial numbers (we miss rotary phones, too!), but this consent is not required to use our service.
I would guess that the NH has some legal responsibilities to keep track of its residents. I doubt that a cab company does. If your mother said, "I'm through visiting my friend now and I'm ready to go home," how is a cab driver supposed to know any different?
But that is just a guess, and I'd be interested to hear more informed opinions.
Once my husband wanted to stay home from his Adult Day Program to watch a sporting event. No, he needed to go. Much to my surprise he showed up at home a couple hours early that day -- he simply called the transportation company and asked them to come take him home early. Well on that particular day, no harm done. I had already handled my scheduled errands, etc. and happened to be home, but it would not have been so good if he'd come home to an empty house, especially since he can't always remember how to get in on his own. I called the Day Program. They had not missed him yet, and the director about had apoplexy hearing that he was at home watching sports! How could he have just walked out without them knowing it?! They had staff meetings and tightened up some procedures, but I can see how it could happen. Participants do leave at various times, for dental appointments, etc. and the mere fact that someone was walking out the door and into approved transportation at an odd time would not necessarily draw attention.
In the wonderful book "Water for Elephants" the elderly gentleman who is the central character goes missing from his NH when the family member who was to visit him fails to show up on time. That was quite believable.
It must be a real challenge for care centers!
If you think this is very likely to happen, then don't let her have any cash. The NH can easily do a resident trust fund so she has to go and sign off for any $ taken out so she can get $ to buy things like candy or magazines but getting funds could be the trigger that she is going for an "escape" and the staff will be on the lookout.
Also there is nothing like getting friendly with the front desk, they usually know everything and can easily keep an eye out for potential escape. There is a couple of fast food places close to my mom's NH and the front desk gals and the nursing staff for her wing each get a small gift card from Wendy's or Taco Cabana on the odd occasion. Works wonders for helpfulness.