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I have taken care of my father and he has lived with me for 7 years. About 4 yrs ago, he added me as a joint owner on his bank accounts. I also took care of my mother for 2 years before she passed. If I didn't take care of my father, he would be in a nursing home. If his condition worsens to the extent I can no longer care of him, can Medicaid take all of the money in the joint bank accounts for nursing home care? We live in NC. Thank you.

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How far in advance do savings/checking accounts need to be transferred into or under someone else's name to avoid Nursing home from taking these funds. If funds are transferred to another account under someone's name other than patients name. Is there a time limit where this is acceptable to do & the money be safe?
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talk to a lawyer experienced with elder care and Medicaid as all states are different
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Medicaid allows the patient $2000 or less in the bank. If he goes into a Nursing Home, they will take all of his SS check to pay for it, and make up the difference in NH cost. They will allow you to stay in his home, as you have been caregiving over two years. You need your own income to pay the mortgage, utilities, taxes etc. Since you have time to plan, separate your money from his, two bank accounts, one in his name, one in yours.
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OK so who's money is going into the joint account? Who's SS #? If it is just dad's SS or retirement income or other long term $ asset, then it is all his money and all subject to spend-down IF in the future your dad needs to apply for Medicaid.

But if you are depositing any of your money into the account, then you are co-mingling funds and this is a totally sticky problem IF he applies for Medicaid. As the entire sum in the account will be viewed as his and subject to spend-down. As you are his child & not his spouse, there is no "community spouse" set aside of assets (up to 112K in most states) or diversion of income (like for MMNA - monthly maintenance needs allowance).

So what's what in the "joint" account?

As an aside, SS hates commingled accounts. If they find that it's happening, they may require that you become your dad's "representative payee" for his SS income and there is reporting required……SS does an investigation too. Often when they go into a NH, the NH then becomes the representative payee
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Oh another thought, it sounds like dad is living with you. The house is yours.

If this is correct, then realize that if Dad goes into a NH on Medicaid, he is fully expected to pay all his income as his co-pay (his SOC - share of cost) each & every month to the NH. He can keep a small personal needs allowance ( $ 35 - 90 a month). If you have been needing dad's income or assets in order to make ends meet to maintain your household, then that money will not be there anymore. If this possibly is the situation you will find yourself in, I would run not walk to an elder law attorney to see if your dad can do a personal services contract for you to be able to pay for your caregiving or for rent from dad to you for his living with you. This is not a DIY project either as it has to be able to be vetted by Medicaid in the future and without a transfer penalty. If this is your situation, you are not alone, this story comes up again & again on this site……where a daughter (almost always a female) left a job and moved in the parents for unpaid caregiving for years & years and now parents need higher level of care & she finds herself with limited financial resources and their parents income has to be paid to the NH under Medicaid rules. You need to do whatever now to be compensated for caregiving if at all possible so that you aren't in this situation if you can help it.
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1sweet - you have a lot to deal with. Although it may seem hard to accept this, the fact that he has funds really gives you & him so many more options for care. Dad can hire home-health care; he can pay for respite stay if you & hubs need to do a vacation away from him. Dad can go to the dentist and pay for services without worry. Your not in the trick bag where there is only 1 NH who will take him and it is scary or that he needs thousands of $$ of private pay dental work. Dad has options.

? - when he goes in for what seems like a revolving hospitalization followed by rehab, what is happening? Is he having a recurrent C. Diff or just what is the point source of the hospital/rehab stays? I'd pause and really look hard at this and then speak with the social worker @ the rehab facility about what is their take on what his near future is like. At some point in time rehab will not be a possibility (as you mention he is noncompliant), so what happens then? If any of the rehab places can work for him to become a long term stay resident, I'd really suggest you start considering that option.

The reality for most elderly is that eventually the level of care that they need is best in a facility and the ability of the caregivers just runs out, so they have to move to an LTC. And if they live long enough, they will run out of money unless they are generationally wealthy. So they have to apply to Medicaid to pay for their NH stay. Average NH annual cost is 75K, the money is just gone in a few years. You have to plan for the application to Medicaid in all reality.

ANother ?, if he is living with you & hubs now for several years, why keep his house? How does he own the house, like is in a long-established trust or is it just a traditional ownership? Does it make sense to keep the house??; is the cost of maintaining the house at all an issue for dad right now?; is there a good reason to keep it? Can you do all costs on dad's house this for the next few years without a strain on your & hubs finances and your & hubs time?

You need to realize that IF dad in the future does apply for Medicaid, he can keep his home (by & large in most states) an an exempt asset but the property will have to remain his homestead and there is the possibility of a MERP (Medicaid Estate Recovery Program) claim or lien on the property after his death. If you go this route, imho you kinda need to plan on keeping the property for the rest of dad's lifetime and keep detailed expense reports on it as you will need to do your own claim against dad's estate to be reimbursed in probate & to be taken off the MERP Medicaid tally. If you sell it now or if you sell it a after dad is on Medicaid, then all the proceeds from the sale are on Medicaid's radar and they will expect all to go for his care. You can do a lien to be reimbursed from the proceeds at the act of sale of the house but you really have to be organized and work with the Realtor on all this way in advance. It imho is way easier to deal with this as your own claim against the costs of managing the estate in probate. If you do decide to continue Dad's house ownership, keep in mind that MERP is ultimately a legal process done via probate. If you are executrix of the estate, you really can have a lot of latitude to determine how things get paid and at what timeframe.
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Yes, My Daddy has lived in my home for the past 7 years. My husband and I do almost everything for him... including personal care and bathing, food prep, medication, doctor visits, pay his bills (with his money), take care of his home and yard including repairs. His house has been empty for 7 years. This has been very difficult, I work a full time job. My husband is with him while I am at work. 7 years ago, decisions had to be made quickly. Daddy was fine, driving, taking care of his house, yard and medicine.. plus he took care of my mother. He would take walks daily. He took a stroll around the church grounds and then proceeded to cross over the railroad tracks, his foot slipped and his head landed on the railroad track rail. He had a traumatic brain injury, he suffered from a subdural hematoma. On the day he fell, I not only had to emotionally cope with his life threatening condition, I had to move my mother into my house. She was not able to care for herself. I did not have extra space so I placed an air mattress in the living room until I could get something permanent worked out. Daddy has never been the same. He was so sharp and active. Daddy was the one who always had my back.... now I have his. This was very hard to accept. He has short term memory loss. For example when I get him ready for the doctor, he will ask "Where are we going." and 2 minutes later he will ask me "Where are we going." He has no concept of time and doesn't understand why we need to hurry for anything. He is often noncompliant and at times becomes very aggressive. But, he is my daddy and I have done everything I could to keep him out of a nursing home. He has been in the hospital 3 times this year already and it is only March. He is currently in the hospital and will have to go to rehab for 30 more days. He hates being in rehab and he is noncompliant with physical therapy. I desperately want him to get better and get back home. He was very wise and put back money all his life... Thank God. It is a shame that the system would take everything he has if his condition worsens to the place that I can no longer take care of him.
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This isn't really an answer to your specific question, but it IS something to consider, going forward. One of the criteria for hospice care is the number of visits the patient has in hospital, over a specific time period. First, please don't let this scare you .. it doesn't have to mean 'terminal' .. Second, hospice can provide services and palliative treatments that the regular healthcare profession doesn't/won't and is often more successful (since it can be provided at home, with visiting aids, nurses, and even doctors, AND you can get respite). When/if he sees improvement, they'll discharge him from hospice care to his normal physician/care team. It's worth considering.

Mostly, I point this out for two reasons: he's non-compliant with the rehab anyway, and two, he'll get YOUR care at home. Often they heal faster/better in the home environment than in the SNF, even if they don't get the PT (which, btw, YOU can provide or dip into the savings and have someone who specializes in PT come out once or twice a week), the home environment is so much more conducive to healing. I had our PCP state to us, very clearly, "The hospital is NOT the place to heal." It's not. Whether it's a LTCF or SNF or general hospital. Forgive me, but the first two are parking lots and the second is an airport terminal (nothing derisive about the personnel, my experience with people is GREAT .. it's the institution(s) that is(are) broken).

Best wishes for a good outcome and keep us posted on how he's (and you are) doing!
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My husband is on Medicaid and in a NH. . .he receives SS and 2 pensions every month. I receive a small SS amount every month which is directly deposited . . .I was told I must keep no more than $1,600 per month in the joint acc't. So after paying rent utilities from the joint acc't there is $ left what can I use it for? Can I transfer $ into my acc't ?
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At this point we are not considering a nursing home, but may do so in the future.???
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