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Which best describes their mobility?
How well are they maintaining their hygiene?
How are they managing their medications?
Does their living environment pose any safety concerns?
Fall risks, spoiled food, or other threats to wellbeing
Are they experiencing any memory loss?
Which best describes your loved one's social life?
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I. How We Work in Washington. Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services. APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid. We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour. APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
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V. Complaints. Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
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Your loved one may not require home care or assisted living services at this time. However, continue to monitor their condition for changes and consider occasional in-home care services for help as needed.
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Sure! It depends what you are looking for. You don't need family members to take care of you, should the need arise.
If you have a home and some money, you can consider selling your home and moving to an assisted living apartment. You can live independently among other elders, often with communal meals and activities, along with competent nursing assistance as needed. That's pretty expensive.
If you lack the funds for such luxury, you may qualify for medicaid assistance and have options for Home and Community Based Services. I believe every state offers some variation of this.
As Gaeton pointed out, you should meet with an elder law attorney and appoint someone you trust to be your POA when you are unable to make decisions or manage your financial matters, as well as having an Authorized Medical Representative, that is, someone who can make medical decisions on your behalf if you are unable. You can also make written instructions as to what you do wish in certain conditions, such as what life-saving and life support systems you do or do not want. A trusted friend, neighbor, or a young person who is like a son or daughter to you is an ideal choice. Although, you can find a professional to fill that role, such as an accountant or attorney to manage legal and financial matters on your behalf.
First and foremost you both will need to figure out who will be your Power of Attorney (and it cannot be each other, it needs to be someone significantly younger than yourself, local, competent and willing).
This would be a discussion with a certified elder law attorney (CELA). I have a form that names a legal guardian of my choosing, should the situation turn out like that (otherwise you will be court-ordered a 3rd party guardian by a judge).
You should consider transitioning yourselves into a senior community that has a continuum of care. Without family, there won't be anyone to legally be able to get you proper care so you will need to plan to move *before* you think you "need" it. This will also mean figuring out your finances to pay for such care. The reality is, without family to help, you won't be able to age-in-place in your home for long. Also, the cost of hiring out help is outrageous anymore (not to mention trying find the help in the first place).
Also consider hiring a Geriatric Care Manager for your medical needs.
What type of resources are you looking for? Your local Senior Service Center might have programs that could help you if you need help. they probably are looking for Volunteers is you are looking for something to do. But a bit more info might help get you some better answers.
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
VI. No Waiver of Your Rights.
APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
I agree that:
A.
I authorize A Place For Mom ("APFM") to collect certain personal and contact detail information, as well as relevant health care information about me or from me about the senior family member or relative I am assisting ("Senior Living Care Information").
B.
APFM may provide information to me electronically. My electronic signature on agreements and documents has the same effect as if I signed them in ink.
C.
APFM may send all communications to me electronically via e-mail or by access to an APFM web site.
D.
If I want a paper copy, I can print a copy of the Disclosures or download the Disclosures for my records.
E.
This E-Sign Acknowledgement and Authorization applies to these Disclosures and all future Disclosures related to APFM's services, unless I revoke my authorization. You may revoke this authorization in writing at any time (except where we have already disclosed information before receiving your revocation.) This authorization will expire after one year.
F.
You consent to APFM's reaching out to you using a phone system than can auto-dial numbers (we miss rotary phones, too!), but this consent is not required to use our service.
You don't need family members to take care of you, should the need arise.
If you have a home and some money, you can consider selling your home and moving to an assisted living apartment. You can live independently among other elders, often with communal meals and activities, along with competent nursing assistance as needed. That's pretty expensive.
If you lack the funds for such luxury, you may qualify for medicaid assistance and have options for Home and Community Based Services. I believe every state offers some variation of this.
As Gaeton pointed out, you should meet with an elder law attorney and appoint someone you trust to be your POA when you are unable to make decisions or manage your financial matters, as well as having an Authorized Medical Representative, that is, someone who can make medical decisions on your behalf if you are unable. You can also make written instructions as to what you do wish in certain conditions, such as what life-saving and life support systems you do or do not want.
A trusted friend, neighbor, or a young person who is like a son or daughter to you is an ideal choice. Although, you can find a professional to fill that role, such as an accountant or attorney to manage legal and financial matters on your behalf.
This would be a discussion with a certified elder law attorney (CELA). I have a form that names a legal guardian of my choosing, should the situation turn out like that (otherwise you will be court-ordered a 3rd party guardian by a judge).
You should consider transitioning yourselves into a senior community that has a continuum of care. Without family, there won't be anyone to legally be able to get you proper care so you will need to plan to move *before* you think you "need" it. This will also mean figuring out your finances to pay for such care. The reality is, without family to help, you won't be able to age-in-place in your home for long. Also, the cost of hiring out help is outrageous anymore (not to mention trying find the help in the first place).
Also consider hiring a Geriatric Care Manager for your medical needs.
Help?
Companions?
Hope you will give us details so we can respond.
Your local Senior Service Center might have programs that could help you if you need help. they probably are looking for Volunteers is you are looking for something to do.
But a bit more info might help get you some better answers.