Long story short she was moved into a NH. We got all the paperwork and completed as much as we possibly could. Our names are not on any of her accounts and we do not have POA or guardianship so we are running into roadblocks with completing the paperwork. We have consulted an attorney and are waiting to hear back, but the NH is now telling us we had better get it figured out or they can release her Is that even legal considering she doesn’t even know what is going on around her? Have any of you run into any issues likes this ?
The NH can get emergency guardianship and cut through all of the red tape. Consider this seriously. It might be your best option.
"Assistance with Completing this Application
You can choose an authorized representative
You can give a trusted person permission to talk about this application with us, see your information and act for you on matters related to this application, including getting information about your application and signing your application on your behalf. This person is called an 'authorized representative.'
Authorized Representative Signature
By signing, I agree to be an authorized representative for this household. I understand my responsibilities including keeping information about the people applying on this application private."
This is all that is required but the app differs by state.
If you are their *legal* guardian or PoA filling out their app (as opposed to just being the authorized rep), they ask for proof along with the submission of the app.
Call (717-783-8975) or email (LTC-ombudsman@pa.gov) to contact the ombudsman assigned to the facility. Their purpose is to help resolve conflicts with a facility.
Did you try the Area Agencies on Aging (pa.gov) for help with home care options? They should be able to point you to everything needed.
If mom is lucid, the POA just requires her signature, two witnesses, and a notary. You can find one who can come to the facility on notary911.org or notarylocator.com.
If mom is not lucid, you're past the POA point and need emergency guardianship unless you're okay with the facility or State doing that.
Best wishes for clarity and resolution.
Blessings on you and please keep us updated on this journey.
In my State you have 90days to apply, spend down and get them info needed. If not done within that time, you have to start over.
Where are all of her documents? Can someone go to her home and gather the actual documents? Your name may not be on the bank accounts, but you know where she had bank accounts, right?
I'm sure the atty is going to be able to direct you, so that conversation will be well worth the expense.
Good luck and hang in there this process seems designed to be a marathon by they system rather than a spring, though they do expect you to sprint…
Ask the local area on aging and a qualified elder law attorney about allowing the state to take guardianship may be a better route. The court appoints a guardian and gives the person authority to access all sorts of bank and Social security records, etc. They may find she has funds...or report to the court that she doesn't.
That satisfies the Medicaid requirement for documentation for sure.
The nursing homes often try to push for discharge home so they do not have to wait for Medicaid to 'catch up" with the overdue amount once Medicaid kicks in.
"Unsafe discharge" are the key words. Not able to provide for her needs, no other family members available either.
Good luck.