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Her daughter is her caregiver that has developed medical issues and can’t take care of her any longer. her daughter is moving away to get help with her medical issues.
This is not a responsibility you should take on. Her daughter should be making arrangements for her mother. She should be deciding where to place Mom so she can get care and maybe make it closer to you. Hopefully daughter has POA so she can handle the finances for Mom. Now friend has been diagnosed with ALZ she cannot assign someone as POA. Only guardianship can be done now and thats expensive.
You don't mention how old your friend is but you should take no more on than visiting her and maybe making sure she has what she needs. You should not use ur own moneyfor her needs. The daughter should reimburse you.
If the daughter leaves without setting up Moms care, call APS right away. This woman cannot be on her own. We have had many friends and neighbors who were trying to do a good deed by helping only to find out they became too emeshed. Then felt they had no way out. There isca way out, Adult Protection Services.
The family will take care of her needs. Just stay in touch with family and they will notify you if she moves, and where. Stay a friend and visit her. Best to you.
BDMartin, welcome to the forum. We really need more information, such as what degree of Alzheimer's does this person have? Alzheimer's can last for a long time (my friend's wife it was 15 years). Will this person be moving in with you, and you will be her caregiver? Will your friend pay you for your care?
Or if she is moving into Independent Living then later into Memory Care, can she budget for the cost? Such cost are around $7,000 per month (depending on where you live) and much more in Memory Care.
Who is your friend's Power of Attorney? Will the Power of Attorney allow this person to move?
Since you weren't asking whether you should or should not get involved with the care of your friend, I'll answer the question you did ask.
It's not ideal to move an AD patient out of their familiar environment because it can confuse and agitate them to do so. But AD is not an ideal situation by any stretch of the imagination anyway, and sometimes we have to do what we have to do.
For more info or to speak with someone in further detail, go to alz.org They have a huge amount of info and resources available on their website, a forum, and an 800 phone number as well.
I realize not good to move. Her daughter has a brain tumor, and is not expected to live another year. Friend with dementia is from the area we want to move her to, she’s lived in present area for 2 years. she has been wanting to move back for quite some time. once her daughter moves or dies she will have no one closer than 300 miles, except for phone contact.
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
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You don't mention how old your friend is but you should take no more on than visiting her and maybe making sure she has what she needs. You should not use ur own moneyfor her needs. The daughter should reimburse you.
If the daughter leaves without setting up Moms care, call APS right away. This woman cannot be on her own. We have had many friends and neighbors who were trying to do a good deed by helping only to find out they became too emeshed. Then felt they had no way out. There isca way out, Adult Protection Services.
Just stay in touch with family and they will notify you if she moves, and where.
Stay a friend and visit her.
Best to you.
Or if she is moving into Independent Living then later into Memory Care, can she budget for the cost? Such cost are around $7,000 per month (depending on where you live) and much more in Memory Care.
Who is your friend's Power of Attorney? Will the Power of Attorney allow this person to move?
It's not ideal to move an AD patient out of their familiar environment because it can confuse and agitate them to do so. But AD is not an ideal situation by any stretch of the imagination anyway, and sometimes we have to do what we have to do.
For more info or to speak with someone in further detail, go to alz.org They have a huge amount of info and resources available on their website, a forum, and an 800 phone number as well.
Best of luck to you.
Friend with dementia is from the area we want to move her to, she’s lived in present area for 2 years.
she has been wanting to move back for quite some time.
once her daughter moves or dies she will have no one closer than 300 miles, except for phone contact.