I live in Dublin, Ireland, and am an informal carer. My mother is not sick, just emotionally needy. We have both been through the wringer with our family in recent years. Losing my sense of self and it is wearing me down. It would be lovely to know if there are others in the same situation living near me who could meet up for coffee. Or even just share ideas on how to cope in this country where there is nothing for us informal carers. If you wanna meet up we can PM and swap email addresses.